you hear this phrase a lot. “she told me she would never leave me”. it’s spouted by brokenhearted guys (99.9% chance of being young and barely experienced in the field of the women scholar) that are desperate for answers.
people get hung up on what other people say too much. instead of listening to what a woman says — watch her actions. if she tells you she loves you with all her heart, but barely makes an effort to contact you, acts like it’s a chore to be around you or treats you like she’s doing a favor just to be with you, then obviously some wild shit is going on behind the scenes.
a lot of guys don’t get this, though. “she told me she’d always be mine and mine only forever! she lied!”
lebron james told the cleveland cavaliers he wanted to be a ‘cavalier forever’. he entered free agency in july 2010 and took his talents to south beach to play for the miami heat. when people get married, they say ’til death do us part’ and 50% of marriages end in divorce (the other 50% end in death).
so, take what people say with a grain of salt, and watch their actions instead. when a person has a PhD in bullshit, they can manipulate you with their words if you are gullible enough. the power of words cannot be explained, but if you turn your active ears off (i can barely hear a damn thing, anyway) and watch one’s actions, you will be much more successful in life.
i’m not telling you to not listen. listen, but don’t over-invest in a few spouted words. it’s bad for your health. as the old adage goes, actions speak louder than words.